I am perhaps one of the most seriously maligned victims of Evan and I was asked to contribute to this new site before it was even launched but I declined because as this site explains Even his all about getting a reaction and giving his sad pathetic existence some meaning.
I must say I have been surprised to learn more about Evan Iliadis and have since been in communication with people from Rotary and from Cagayan De Oro.
The reality is I am about as opposite as you can get in many of the areas Evan talks about. In fact his accusations are so far away from the truth and anything that resembles me that they are laughable. Anyone that knows me asks me what drugs Evan is on and according to one person I spoke to Evan is a long time user of Interferon for his Hepatitis C and this apparently causes depression and some psychiatric disorders. In other words Evan may be genuinely sick.
MY STORY
My story began with a girlfriend and child I was supporting. Had her in a brand new two bedroom apartment in LapuLapu. I supplied Air-conditioning, Full size fridge, Solid wood dinning table and chairs, TV and video player, 3 piece lounge suite, brand new computer with internet connection and I can go on and on. Anyone that has been to the Philippines will get the point that she was being well cared for.
Then I met a fellow Australian introduced by a mutual friend. I invited him and some other Australians around to a special Australian Christmas knowing they were otherwise alone. This guy met my girl friend and after the new year she started to get estranged to me to the point where each visit was a hostile encounter (on her part). I also noticed she now kept her bedroom door locked.
To cut a long story short I later found out that he had moved into my apartment and was poisoning her mind about me. He would hide behind the bedroom door each time I visited and they would play games at my expense. He tried to befriend me at the same time and we went out a few times but he was never anything close to what I would call a friend.
He is a chronic alcoholic and Shabu (Methamphetamine) user. My girl friend had confided in me she had once tried Shabu but said it was long ago. Turned out is was while I was with her and this Australian got her well and truly addicted (according to the Yaya and neighbors using 3 or more times a day).
The Australian sent her to an attorney and I got a letter of demand for 50 thousand a month support. I think he thought he could continue to live in comfort in the apartment I paid for using all the appliances I had provided. As soon as I signed an agreement and gave the first payment they just disappeared and stopped communication.
I also conducted my own investigation into the background of this Australian and find he has a history of breaking up relationships and trying to seduce other peoples girls friends. He did both to Paul Petrea again while living under his roof as a guest. I also discovered in my investigations the Australian had a sadistic and abusive streak and likes to subject people to extreme mental anguish. This is what he was doing with me and I found many of his victims – Filipinas.
I had contacted the authorities and was working with a PNP official attached to Immigration and the victims were given the opportunity to lodge a complaint against the Australian and a number did so.
I heard stories from very reliable sources that on two occasions my ex girl friend and left my child with perfect strangers to go and rescue her “boyfriend” who was drunk somewhere. I also herd other stories of neglect. My involvement of the authorities and exposure of the Australians activities gained his wrath and with the assistance of a German who I have never met they put out a contract on my life. I was not aware of this contract but it came to the notice of the Australian Federal Police who contacted me to warn me so I left the country returned to Australia.
While in Australia I created a blog called For The Love of Rex. I must admit I had been naive. As strange as it may sound to some I had never encountered such a nasty and evil person as this Australian. I was told by someone reading the story that he was a classic psychopath. They take pleasure in other people pain. They feel no remorse and enjoy playing games with people’s lives.
The more I read the more I realized this was the Australian I had just encountered. Apparently up to 5% of the male population have some form of this condition with the most extreme 1% to 2% being inclined towards extreme physical violence. This Australian is a mild psychopath (as opposed to being a sociopath) as he enjoys the mental anguish he inflicts on others.
EVAN ILIADIS
At some point the Australian and Evan made contact and a page about me was published on Evan’s anti-rotary site http://www.vap-ripoff.org. This has some of the most disgusting and disturbing allegations which I assumed were all provided by the Australian. What I could not understand is how Even could ignore all the hard facts on the For Love of Rex blog which showed that the Australian was the real abuser and just publish the totally unfounded accusations. I later discovered that truth and facts are not important considerations for Even.
I responded to the allegations on my blog but after consulting with some legal friends they all told me I was an idiot to respond and that I should close my blog ASAP. They suggested that Evan will soon lose interest and the page is so silly I should not get upset about it.
I followed their advise and made a conscious decision not to even look at his site. I have put them out my mind for more than a year. Then came the invite to contribute here. As I said at first I declined but have checked the site a few times and also (Evan will be so happy to hear this) checked his site including his new http://sexpatswallofshame.blogspot.com I discovered Evan has published even more rubbish about me from his own fertile imagination.
So I decided I would contribute. I understand there a multiple legal actions be organized against Evan and I may participate. Therefore I do not want Even to change one thing on his site. I like it just the way it is now 
Right now it is so silly and inaccurate that I actually have a giggle when I look at it. Most of it is complete work of fiction and I am thankful that so many others can see that now.
I will speak directly to Evan if the admin here permits.
Evan I do not hate you or even wish ill of you. I believe we are all spiritually connected and we have crossed paths in this life expereince so that we can learn something from each other. One thing that has occurred to me is that I have always been a shy and private person and your exposure is pushing me out of my comfort zone. I will now embrace this change. Just remember Evan when we hurt others we are really hurting ourselves – The answer is LOVE
have added the picture as requested. Admin
