Understanding Even Iliadis
October 1st 2010 Posted at General
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I have had an opportunity to communicate now with a lot of victims of Even and the response of most of his them is to feel angry and deeply hurt by his lies. While this response is natural it is exactly the response that Evan wants and at the same time it does not serve any purpose to the victim to feel this way.
I have long since reframed my feelings about Evan to that of being amused by his pathetic attacks which all my friends and associates know to be totally false. He has accused me of such heinous things that one cannot but laugh. I hope the following will help other victims to reframe their feeling also. He really is so pathetic and sad and not worthy of our anger.
Firstly you need to understand what motivates a guy like Evan Iliadis and how his Internet Stalking life began.
Evan started his internet stalking more than five years ago when he was a member of the Rotary club of Tagbilaran in the Philippines and was caught misappropriating supplies destined to feed hungry children.
This is literary taking found out of the mouths of babies. A despicable act and when faced the possibility of public exposure he quickly launched a campaign again the most worthy Village Aid Program (VAP) charity and it members with false allegations that they were corrupt. What he did not understand is that both Rotary and VAP would have let him quietly resign not wanting bad publicity.
Evan was also engaged in other fraudulent business activities on the Island of Bohol and after borrowing money quickly escaped to France where he currently lives. Living in the Philippines was yet another failure for Evan who has never been able to hold down a real job in his life.
Back in France he launched into the most virulent personal attacks on individuals with VAP and the Rotary club of Tagbilaran which he was a member. At some point he discovered that he really enjoyed publishing his anti-Rotary anti-VAP hate site and engaging in flame wars with others. For this pathetic lonely old man dying of Hep C it soon became is only Raison D’etre.
Evan has been a total failure all his life and without real friends and without purpose he suddenly discovered the power to indiscriminately lash out at the world and express his deep frustration with life. Just read his blog (not an easy thing to do) and you quickly get a sense of the deep anger and frustration of this sad person. You can then catch glimpse of the real Evan you can’t real feel angry with him. He is so pathetic you can only pity him.
I actually ignored his sites for a long time leaving his accusations unchallenged. I have refused to play his game and will no longer respond online to anything he publishes. I have however recently become active in countering his internet presence and asserting my own presence. I am working with others and together we are exposing the real Evan Iliadis. We have only just started!
Christopher Bennetts
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I have also revised my opinion of Evan lliadis and also pity him. Mental illnes is a cruel disease because except for the way you behave and what you say and do, you are otherwise quite healthy and ‘normal’. However it soon becomes obvious you have a problem and I can understand his lashing out, if only in frustration as realiztion of his condition finally dawned.
He has written horrendous lies about me, taken posts and twisted them out of context, edited and erased, added and rearranged to make me come across as someone described me recently “a loathesome creature”. Fair comment if anything he had posted was true as stated. However it is all lies an d the best way to deal with it is to ignore him. He can write what he likes nad the more he writes, the more obvious it is who is the sane, rational one of the two of us.
As I read sometime ago; ‘those hwo care (about what he says of me) don’t matter and those who matter (such as friends and family) don’t care what he writes because they know it is wrong. If this ever costs me a job because a HR person Googled me and found his hate site then I am better off not working for them if they can’t decide for themselves after meeting me.
Evan, I forgive you.
This iliadis guy hates americans,obviously.I have read his blog and find him to be a repulsive little slug.I would like to meet him and hand him his head,straight off his shoulders.Very slowly I would do this so he can see how much I am enjoying it.iliadis should not go after Vets of any war,and,he has made a mistake goin after the Viet vets.He knows the people he is commenting on,but,wont admit it!How else could he know what alleged psychiatric disorders the guys at the nice Bar-b-que have?He has shown himself to be a scumbag of such a magnitude that no beating is good enough for him.I wonder what has made HIM such a bastion of mental health.All of what he writes is garbage and he doesn’t realize that just because he reads something on-line in a yahoo chat group that attributes a certain reader with what was chatted about that the person chatting must be that person(the horse’s mouth,he likes to say!lol!!!).He is a sad excuse for a slug,but his delusional state of mind does not excuse him from trying to ruin a person’s reputation,business and/or personal life! I say :BEAT HIM UNMERCIFULLY!! Dump boiling water on him to wake his sluggy ass up and then,DO IT AGAIN!!!
I am new to this ‘conflict’, but I have known Perry for years and he is one of the most respectable people I know. I am just disgusted how some people abuse the internet just because they can …
Evan just looks for people to play with. He is just lonely Don’t you guys get that