Evan Iliadis

Exploring the Sick Mind of a Sociopath Internet Stalker

Reaping the Whirlwind

This is Evan Iliadis - the face behind the venomous lies published on his hate sites: 

http://sexpatswallofshame.blogspot.com

http://www.vap-ripoff.org

This is the face behind the venomous lies

There have always been a percentage of any human society that is pretty sad, twisted and just plain nasty. Some people are born that way, others become such over the years. Perhaps it is one failing after another finally turning them into spiteful petty people or it could simply be the way they are wired.

We have all known such people. You say ‘hello’ and they just look at you as if to say ‘who gave you the right to speak to me?’ At first you might feel you have done something wrong, said the wrong thing, somehow offended this person. No. The truth is this person hates the world, hates themselves and is quite simply ‘anti-social’. They probably function well enough if tested by mental health professionals and of course many of them do rate highly on IQ tests. But that doesn’t address the way they are and the way they interact with society. Then there are those who are mentally ill or unbalanced, they are sociopaths and they are very, very dangerous people.

That danger doesn’t have to be in the form of a classic ‘serial killer’ model. It can be expressed through obnoxious behaviour and viscious, often anonymous, attacks on others they see as a threat or somehow resent their success or standing in the community. There doesn’t have to be any rationale to this, they are by definition irrational people behaving irrationally.

The advent of the internet has given these anti-social sad sacks a very handy outlet to the world. They can not only express their anger and frustration but they can harm others and do so in relative anonymity and safety. At least that is what they think. While they post on forums and set up blogs and web sites attacking the good name and reputation of their chosen victims, they forget they may have left their non-virtual back door wide open.

As anonymous as they may think they are online, they are known to somebody. While they hide behind ISPs and usernames and all the rest, they forget they are known and so too are their families. They have wives and children who are usually unaware of what a pathetic creature their father and husband really is. Many might have an inkling, some might even fully realise but after all, they are their ‘loved ones’. It is funny how the loved ones of a sociopath are somehow sacred and not to be involved but the loved ones of their victims are all part of the game. Fair game. They are affected by the nastiness of these swine as the victims themselves, often more so. Employers are often contacted and told a swathe of lies and half truths. Allegations are made to loved ones about infidelity and pedophilia and other horrendous accusations. Yet these same accusers scream the loudest if a victim plays the game by the sociopath’s own rules and involves their family, their loved ones.

The thing is, Iliadis, you have family and you have vulnerabilities and while you continue to attack others who are innocent of your obscene allegations, then they are at risk. At risk of finding out all about you and your sordid activities. And when they know, everyone who knows you will know. There will be nowhere you can hide because all doors will be slammed shut on you. All doors. Even the ones you think never will be. As ye sow, so ye shall reap. You are about to reap a whirlwind, Iliadis.

Bradley Hughes

I am no friend of Evan. Evan claims I support him but I am a victim of him also. There have been 15 or more false names used by Evan and his friend to make post on blogs all over the net. My name and e-mail address was stolen. It was used to discredit me with the Congressman in my District because he was renting to a certain person. I had to make several trips to the Congressman’s office to get this mess straightened out. He has spammed members of several Yahoo Groups with lies and false statements.He has tried to discredit Chris Bennetts, CDO Ladies Expats, Spooks, Mike Belter and the list goes on and on. Evan’s sight is full of lies and hate. I am reluctant to post about Evan because I know how vicious he can be. I have nothing to do with Evan or his blog and he is not a person I would call a friend.

Bradley Hughes

Evan has friends

Yes amazing as it seems Evan does have friends.  It’s not just Evan but there are another sick mind that found each other on the internet.  They are two very sick and perverted minds online.

WHO ARE THESE SICKOS?

Evan Iliadis who lives in France

Justin Arledge lives in Mesa Arizona

In most cases none of the above have actually met the people they attack on the Internet.

In fact they have not even met each other!

They are just sick minds online that found each other.

Evan Iliadis

Evan is Greek, whom adopted France as his country after “serving” in the French Foreign Legion.  The story is that he was an assistant cook and had to leave after being diagnosed with Hepatitis C which rumor has it he contracted from a homosexual relationship with a fellow worker.   He lived in the Philippines for a brief period joining the Rotary club but was caught stealing supplies destined to feed hungry children.  He also had a furniture business where is sold imitation mahogany as the real thing and there were an increasing number of disgruntled customers demanding refunds.  Before fleeing the country he borrowed money from a number of sources which to this day he has made no effort to repay.

Justin Arledge

Justin is a bi-polar alcoholic. He fled the Philippines after being implicated in the murder of the son of a businessman in Butuan.  He admits he repeatedly visited the “local house of child prostitution” to find the shabu addicted cousin of his wife.  Why his public declaration that he went to such a place?  Because he was a known abuser of underage prostitutes in Butuan and this was his pathetic attempt to cover his tracks when so many there know about his activities.   Now he joins the “moral crusade” of Evan but has he ever attempted to expose this “local house of child prostitution” on the internet?  Did he report it to the Mayor? PNP? DSWD (child services)?    No because he would have to report himself.   Now, he can no longer abuse underage prostitutes he like Evan is resentful of not being able to return to the Philippines so  vents his anger and frustration at the world via the internet.

If these are the three on the mission to clean up the Philippines of undesirables then God help us!

French Libel and slander laws

We narrowed down to three legal practices in south of France one in Montpellier and two in Marseille. The concept of ‘no win no fee’ is being seriously looked at. Under French law Evan Iliadis is required to prove every claim he makes to the satisfaction of French law whose jurisdiction he comes under. Complainants have nothing to prove, they just file the complaint, the author has to stand their ground with proof. Once confirmed that the ‘no win no fee’ is accepted and the on going investigation into assets owned in France by Evan Iliadis are confirmed the next stage is to serve formal papers. Attachment of earnings orders on his meager income stream is a possibility and may also be explored. An interesting twist from one of the legal advisers is that they also believe that Evan Iliadis may be criminally liable for human right infringements by using pictures of children in his blog and that such items, already cached and copied will in their view hold great weight with the hearing of the case.

Evan Iliadis in Girly bar hopping days

Ever wondered why Evan Iliades only gets a hard on by wearing an ill fitting disguise as the savior of the Philippines.  Read On!!

“Most will know why I do not use my real name. Story goes, I was in a bar one evening talking with some Brits and Evan was there. We were talking with girls. One said, see that guy over there, pointing to Evan, he likes the girls. He got sick with some sex thing and can’t get it strong anymore. It wasn’t long before the gossip and not long after Evan was gone. I knew him and believe me, he was pissed and hated the expats in Bohol. Maybe if he can get his thing fixed he will not be filled with so much hate.”

I will pray for you Evan

Dear Even,  do you know that Jesus loves you? Accept him as your savior and he will bless you with inner peace. I found your web site when reading the Christopher Bennetts site about accepting the responsibility of parenthood. I was very interested in his articles and followed a link to another site about you and from there was able to find your websites. As I read I could see that you are a tormented and unhappy soul. I will pray for you Evan and also for all the people you torment. Repent now.

Bernadette Brown

Evan lives in a fantasy world

I met Evan a few times in Bohol.  He was always full of his own self importance and stories about how he was a war hero and a hundred other things I cannot even remember. My impression was that he lived in a fantasy world and frankly I had no time for him. I know some people he ripped off selling fake furniture as real mahogany. The guy is not only delusional but a crook.  Good luck to you guys in exposing him.

Harvey

Evan on Interferon and its Psychiatric Symptoms

As Chris Bennetts mentioned Evan has Hep C and is a user of Interferon.

This prompted me to do some research and it does cause some Psychiatric disorders:

Any chronic illness, especially liver disease, may cause a person to become anxious and depressed.  Furthermore, interferon itself may also cause or worsen underlying anxiety and depression.  Interferon therapy has additionally been associated with causing irritability, confusion, emotional instability, insomnia and a lack or concentration.

Therefore, people who have a psychiatric disorder, or who are prone to depression, emotional instability or other related symptoms, should begin an antidepressant or antianxiety medication at least three weeks prior to commencing interferon therapy.  In fact, it is probably beneficial for most people starting interferon therapy to begin an antidepressant or antianxiety medication.

      All drugs are metabolized at least to some extent through the liver.  While individuals with a chronic liver disease should avoid any non-essential medications so as not to subject their liver to additional stress, this directive may be outweighed by the great benefit to be obtained by treatment with an antidepressant or an antianxiety medication while on interferon therapy. Probably the safest antidepressants are the selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRI), such as Celexa (Forest Pharmaceuticals), Paxil (SmithKline Beecham), Zoloft (Pfizer) or Prozac (Dista/Eli Lilly).  These typically decrease anxiety levels, but an additional antianxiety medication is sometimes needed such as BuSpar (Bristol-Myers Squibb). Individuals who develop any severe psychiatric side effects while on interferon are best managed jointly by a liver specialist and a psychiatrist. If severe depression associated with suicidal thoughts should occur, interferon therapy should immediately be discontinued.

     Interferon may also cause thyroid abnormalities, symptoms of which may mimic psychiatric disorders.  Individuals on interferon must have their thyroid profile periodically be checked via blood tests, especially when any of the above symptoms develop on therapy.   Finally, all alcohol, nicotine and caffeine should be eliminated, as these substances may exacerbate anxiety and depression.

Admin

Chris Bennetts

I am perhaps one of the most seriously maligned victims of Evan and I was asked to contribute to this new site before it was even launched but I declined because as this site explains Even his all about getting a reaction and giving is sad pathetic existence some meaning.

I must say I have been surprised to learn more about Evan Iliadis and have since been in communication with people from Rotary and from Cagayan De Oro.

The reality is I am about as opposite as you can get in many of the areas Evan talks about.  In fact his accusations are so far away from the truth and anything that resembles me that they are laughable.   Anyone that knows me asks me what drugs Evan is on and according to one person I spoke to Evan is a long time user of Interferon for his Hepatitis C and this apparently causes depression and some psychiatric disorders.  In other words Evan may be genuinely sick.

MY STORY

My story began with a girlfriend and child I was supporting.   Had her in a brand new two bedroom apartment in LapuLapu.   I supplied Air-conditioning, Full size fridge,  Solid wood dinning table and chairs, TV and video player, 3 piece lounge suite, brand new computer with internet connection and I can go on and on.   Anyone that has been to the Philippines will get the point that she was being well cared for.

Then I met a fellow Australian introduced by a mutual friend.   I invited him and some other Australians around to a special Australian Christmas knowing they were otherwise alone.   This guy met my girl friend and after the new year she started to get estranged to me to the point where each visit was a hostile encounter (on her part).   I also noticed she now kept her bedroom door locked.

To cut a long story short I later found out that he had moved into my apartment and was poisoning her mind about me.  He would hide behind the bedroom door each time I visited and they would play games at my expense.  He tried to befriend me at the same time and we went out a few times but he was never anything close to what I would call a friend.

He is a chronic alcoholic and Shabu (Methamphetamine) user.    My girl friend had confided in me she had once tried Shabu but said it was long ago.  Turned out is was while I was with her and this Australian got her well and truly addicted (according to the Yaya and neighbors using 3 or more times a day).

The Australian sent her to an attorney and I got a letter of demand for 50 thousand a month support.   I think he thought he could continue to live in comfort in the apartment I paid for using all the appliances I had provided.   As soon as I signed an agreement and gave the first payment they just disappeared and stopped communication.

I also conducted my own investigation into the background of this Australian and find he has a history of breaking up relationships and trying to seduce other peoples girls friends.  He did both to Paul Petrea again while living under his roof as a guest.    I also discovered in my investigations the Australian had a sadistic and abusive streak and likes to subject people to extreme mental anguish.   This is what he was doing with me and I found many of his victims – Filipinas.

I had contacted the authorities and was working with a PNP official attached to Immigration and the victims were given the opportunity to lodge a complaint against the Australian and a number did so.

I heard stories from very reliable sources that on two occasions my ex girl friend and left my child with perfect strangers to go and rescue her “boyfriend” who was drunk somewhere.    I also herd other stories of neglect.    My involvement of the authorities and exposure of the Australians activities gained his wrath and with the assistance of a German who I have never met they put out a contract on my life.   I was not aware of this contract but it came to the notice of the Australian Federal Police who contacted me to warn me so I left the country returned to Australia.

While in Australia I created a blog called For The Love of Rex.   I must admit I had been naive.   As strange as it may sound to some I had never encountered such a nasty and evil person as this Australian.  I was told by someone reading the story that he was a classic psychopath.  They take pleasure in other people pain.   They feel no remorse and enjoy playing games with people’s lives.

The more I read the more I realized this was the Australian I had just encountered.   Apparently up to 5% of the male population have some form of this condition with the most extreme 1% to 2% being inclined towards extreme physical violence.    This Australian is a mild psychopath (as opposed to being a sociopath) as he enjoys the mental anguish he inflicts on others.

EVAN ILIADIS

At some point the Australian and Evan made contact and a page about me was published on Evan’s anti-rotary site http://www.vap-ripoff.org.   This has some of the most disgusting and disturbing allegations which I assumed were all provided by the Australian.    What I could not understand is how Even could ignore all the hard facts on the For Love of Rex blog which showed that the Australian was the real abuser and just publish the totally unfounded accusations.   I later discovered that truth and facts are not important considerations for Even.

I responded to the allegations on my blog but after consulting with some legal friends they all told me I was an idiot to respond and that I should close my blog ASAP.   They suggested that Evan will soon lose interest and the page is so silly I should not get upset about it.

I followed their advise and made a conscious decision not to even look at his site.   I have put them out my mind for more than a year.    Then came the invite to contribute here.    As I said at first I declined but have checked the site a few times and also (Evan will be so happy to hear this) checked his site including his new http://sexpatswallofshame.blogspot.com    I discovered Evan has published even more rubbish about me from his own fertile imagination.

So I decided I would contribute.    I understand there a multiple legal actions be organized against Evan and I may participate.  Therefore I do not want Even to change one thing on his site.  I like it just the way it is now :)     Right now it is so silly and inaccurate that I actually have a giggle when I look at it.   Most of it is complete work of fiction and I am thankful that so many others can see that now.

I will speak directly to Evan if the admin here permits.

Evan I do not hate you or even wish ill of you.   I believe we are all spiritually connected and we have crossed paths in this life expereince so that we can learn something from each other.   One thing that has occurred to me is that I have always been a shy and private person and your exposure is pushing me out of my comfort zone.   I will now embrace this change.    Just remember Evan when we hurt others we are really hurting ourselves – The answer is LOVE

have added the picture as requested. Admin

Dangerous mind or plain insane?

“Then there are those who are mentally ill or unbalanced, they are sociopaths and they are very, very dangerous people.”

Received from ?? the man himself or his sock puppet who posts death threats under the name of Carver Chris, from Arizona.

’so, you know where his house is. But the problem you have, is he
knows where yours is! It’s now just a matter of choice: Where the
carnage will begin.Doljo? Cagayan de oro? Cebu? Manila?

All options will be considered.Including collateral damages’

Evan and his friends need help, a lot of it!!

Anyone know where Doljo is or what it is?

Filipinos Hated Evan

This received form a guy called Paddy Magill from a ym address in the uk

“Evan in his short time in Bohol attracted enemies like flies are attracted to dog poo!! Evan Iliades thinks that whilst he is away from Bohol his legacy of destruction will quieten down, he is just so wrong!!

The neighbors of Evan Iliades hated his guts and were happy to see him leave the country as were the family of his wife who are just as shamed and embarrassed by him. The former neighbors are are anxious to receive a reward for informing the many plaintive lawyers should he try to return to the house in Sungculon.

For those considering taking action for criminal and vexacious libel against Evan Iliades they may consider taking a lien on the property. The property is located by following this guide:

Go past the Sungculon barangay hall by about 30meters, turn right and head towards Sherwood Bay and Hidden coral resorts.Go along for about 400meters before turning left still heading towards the two mentioned resorts. The unfinished gated property about 300 meters down this track is the Iliades home, empty for now.”